When I was not a paying member I got a msg saying a woman had sent me a message.I needed to pay a fee to read it I could see the woman picture and it was someone I knew at work. She told me she never sent me a message. I contacted asiacharm and told them they never responded they are fraudulent just picking people that use to have a profile on the site as this woman did. Trying to get money out of me on dishonest terms. I suppose they will get away with it. Match.com had to pay a settlement for pulling a similar stiunt. I guess asiacharm figures no one will sue.